Are you tired of failing relationships before they even get off the ground? Do you have a relationship history that reads like a disaster audiobook? Learn how to turn the tables like a Rockstar, fill plenty of excitement, and add freshness to the relationship. Here are eight ways to get back the lost spark in the partner and create a relationship you deserve.
To give your partner the best sex experience, you need to be clear about the things to do and not to do. Avoid making direct contact with the genitals for the initial 15 minutes or so, focus on other parts of her body.
Create a foreplay scenario; this builds excitement and will have her shivering in anticipation. Also, be proactive towards her response to each move you make and read the signs she gives you. Don’t worry, you will get plenty of time to enjoy your favorite sex position and its variations.
Communication is the essential key that keeps a relationship fresh and long-lasting forever. Don't worry if you need to ask your partner how good something feels, and you always listen to the direct communication she is given to you.
3. MAINTAIN HYGIENE
One of the main reasons for turning off inside the bedroom is related to hygiene and smell. If you can maintain an average level of hygiene, there is no issue at all. In terms of cleanliness, female genitals are themselves self-cleaning, so there are no issues. It is not an appropriate enough excuse to avoid oral sex because of this self-cleaning means that the vagina is, therefore, cleaner than the mouth.
When it comes to sex, the female clitoris is the crown jewel of female sexual pleasure. Understanding more about it gives you the power to create a spark and a more intimate relationship.
While most women may not even notice how deep you go in the vagina, a large percentage of females are very aware when you touch the clitoris. If you read magazines or surf the internet, you will find all manner of different terms and orgasm types in its variations. There is no part of the female genitals more sensitive than the clitoris, so focusing on this area makes sense.
5. HANDLING EMOTIONS
In the beginning, it's easy to see everything through tinted glasses- "that's my dream partner. I finally found one". It all happens before you have proven yourself to her. Share those feelings; keep it steady. At the end of a relationship, when a heartbreak takes over, it becomes even difficult.
Don't distract yourself; when it comes to handling emotions, men often become lazy compared to their proactiveness in the bedroom scenes. Women have a sixth sense to smell emotional neglect, which acts as a barrier to building a healthy relationship. Therefore, sharing a similar interest in your partner inside and outside the bedroom is equally essential to outgrow relationships.
6. TRY NEW WAYS
The old ways didn't work, change it up! Don't try to always be the upper hand and control in the bedroom. Some men don't understand women are born with the upper hand-the vagina! The old ways work no more, change things up, and realize her needs as well.
Break the chain, become a new man, and let her break the ice, the way she wants. At first, going against your instinct will be hard, but be patient and bear with it, because the results are going to occur more than worth it.
7. UNDERSTAND HER BODY
Many men fail to understand why a woman can't come just as quickly as they can. After all, the male orgasm is far easier to understand and achieve than women's. Understanding female anatomy and being patient is most important as what you consider to be the final course.
Most men know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. In a survey, it's observed that most women might enjoy their sex life with their partner, but they probably don't manage to orgasm regularly. Be modest and ask her what feels good. Do not continue, simply assuming that what you are doing feels good for the body.
8. SHARING ACTIVITIES
Try taking a shared bath, considering using candles for soft lightning along with some soft music in its variations. A shared bath will act as a relaxation rejuvenation for both of you, make sure to use a love language you both share and read her non-verbal signals, to push her over the edge. Perhaps a massage and shared bath create the perfect atmosphere from the start.