Is the honeymoon period of your relationship now over and it’s finally time to sit down and think about where this is going? Well, first of all, congratulations on crossing the 3-5 month period mark. However now is the time to get real and think about whether he really is the guy for you. And a part of that assessment contains watching out for signs a man is falling in love with you to see whether he’s as serious about you as you are about him! So let’s find out.
Signs A Man Is Falling In Love With You
He cooks you soup, calls your mom, gets along with all your friends and truly makes you feel like the most wanted woman in the world. With all these cues, there must be no doubt in your mind that he’s fallen head over heels for you.
It’s almost like the universe left the perfect man in a bow wrapped finish at your doorstep one fine day. As lucky as you may be with all the passionate lovemaking and the romantic getaways - there are some more secret ways in which men reveal their true feelings which go much deeper than just him bringing you flowers. These signs often go unnoticed but we are here today to uncover them all for you. Here are a few signs he is making love to you that you may not have noticed before.
1. He holds his gaze much longer
You might not notice this too much in your regular encounters for you could be distracted by the other things but now consider watching out for and paying attention to the way he looks at you. When a man feels vulnerable with a woman, is ready to open up to her and trust her - he has a tendency to look into her eyes more affectionately. Prolonged eye contact is probably the biggest indicator of a romantic attraction between two people!
2. He remembers all the little things you tell him
Not just big things like your birthday or your dream job but his love lies in him remembering all the seemingly small things about you. Maybe you told him about the peacock blue sweater you loved so dearly but misplaced last winter or the time you really enjoyed walking your neighbor’s dog. These little anecdotes might only hold significance in the present conversation and not in the long term but if he is indeed falling in love, he will always remember every little thing that you tell him.
3. He is always available for you
Making time for a date is one thing, but making time when you need him is another. Wearing a nice tie and showing up to dinner or drinks doesn’t mean that he is always available to you. But if you call him when you’ve had a rough day and he stays through the call or picks you up for ice cream after - that’s when you know he’s in it for the long haul and has indeed fallen in love.
4. Passionate lovemaking
Having earth-shaking sex does not translate to intense love blossoming between the two of you. Even if he’s everything you wanted in bed, shift your lens and your gaze a little and judge how you two spend your time in bed together. If he is falling in love, his advances towards you are going to be more passionate, more real and perhaps even a little soft.
Giving you pecks on your face mid-way or holding you endearingly could point towards more passionate lovemaking brewing between the two of you.
5. He is happy to do the most mundane tasks with you
Need to wash the dishes that have been piled up after the New Year’s party you threw at your house? Well if your man is the first to happily help you out without a grumble, these are signs he is making love to you without actually showing it in the obvious ways. Simple chores and boring tasks do not worry him as long as he is with you.
True love lies in the little things and maybe even beats grand gestures when it comes to identifying signs a man is falling in love with you. So if he hasn’t planned a romantic evening for you in a week - don’t worry too much. If he still cares for you as usual, picks up your call every time and is happy to lend you a hand whenever you need one, you know that’s more real than a fancy dinner date.