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How to Propose to a Girl: All the Steps You Should Take

Proposing to someone can be one of the biggest moments of your life. If you want to learn how to propose to a girl, you should click here.

The average proposer spends over four months planning out how to ask the big question. 

If you're not a planner, this time of your life can be extremely overwhelming. We all know that the proposal is a once in a lifetime moment and you want to make it as perfect as possible — but how?

Odds are, you haven't proposed to someone before, so the whole experience can be a little unknown. 

If you want to learn how to propose to a girl, keep reading. 

Ask for a Blessing

The first thing you should do when you propose a girl for marriage is to ask for a blessing. Traditionally, you would ask the woman's father for her hand in marriage, but it can be any parental figure that's important to you. 

Plan a time to talk to them alone. This can be the hardest part since you'll usually be with your girlfriend whenever you're with her parents. 

Then, plan out what you're going to say ahead of time. Tell them about all the ways you love their daughter and how you plan to respect her and care for her. Finally, tell them your intentions of marrying her and ask for their blessing. 

Purchase the Perfect Ring

The next step in how to propose is to purchase the perfect ring. 

There are many different engagement ring styles out there, so it's important to find the perfect one.

Start by looking at the rings she already owns and taking notes of their styles. Then, check to see if she has a Pinterest page, many women plan out their future wedding including the ring by "pinning" things they like. If you still have no clue, go with a custom design that a jeweller helps create so it's something unique and personal. 

Plan out a Romantic Proposal 

And the final step in how to propose to your girlfriend is to plan the actual proposal. 

Just like engagement ring styles, there are many ways to propose a girl. You'll want to choose an event or location that means a lot to her. 

Here are a few general ideas:

  • Plan a mini-vacation to her favourite place
  • Pop the question during a family reunion so she's surrounded by loved ones
  • If you both love the same sports team, inquire about proposing on the scoreboard
  • Hire a photographer for a couple's photoshoot and pop the question in front of the camera

Now that you have a plan for where and when you'll ask her to marry you, now you need to plan what to say. Don't assume the right words will come to you because in the moment you'll be nervous.

Instead, plan out a short but sweet speech explaining why you want to spend the rest of your life with her. 

Now You Know How to Propose to a Girl

Now you know the three main steps for how to propose to a girl. 

These steps are for an easy proposal, where both of you are in agreement about your relationship and have expressed a desire for marriage.

Things get a little more complicated when you're wondering how to propose a married woman or someone who doesn't have as strong as feelings as you. But even in these situations, you'll still use these three main steps, with just a few extra steps added on. 

Now that you're ready to propose, you need to also look the part. Visit the Fashion section of this site to find a picture-perfect outfit to wear during the proposal.

How to Propose to a Girl