As the groom, you surely have a lot on your plate right now. You’re juggling wedding preparations with other life responsibilities, such as work and whatnots. However, don’t let the stress and pressure get the best of you because you have more to take care of in the days to come. Aside from thinking about what suit to wear or where to go for your honeymoon, don't forget one integral aspect of your big day—to take care of your groomsmen.

Unlike bridesmaids, your boys are fairly low maintenance, and they don't typically expect much. But still, that doesn't mean you can pass up an opportunity to spoil them and make them aware of how grateful you are to have them around. Being a groomsman isn't a simple thing, and with your pack saying yes, it's saying a lot about how they value your friendship and connection. (1)

It’s now your turn to let your groomsmen know you appreciate their presence. How can you do that? As a start, make sure they're looking fine and mighty on the day of the wedding. You can make that happen by treating your gang to a grooming package like no other. Here are three tips you can try:

• Start with an ultimate grooming kit

You may have heard of grooms handing out groomsmen starter packs, but what about a grooming kit they can actually use on the day of the event? To be sure it'll come in handy, give it to them at least a day before the wedding. The good thing is you won’t need to spend too much time thinking of what to include in the kit because you can always turn to online boutiques, such as groomshop.com. 

An ultimate grooming kit has an array of sizes, materials, and colors available, so you don't need to worry if you want to add more stuff inside. Some things you can include are:

• Shaving tools
• Shaving cream and soap
• Aftershave
• Body wash for men
• A small bottle of perfume or cologne
• Hairstyling gel or wax
• Breath freshener
• Deodorant
• Lip balm
• Dental floss
• Toothpaste and toothbrush

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If you want, you may also throw in an embroidered or personalized bath towel in the kit. You could choose travel bags that are slightly bigger than pouches so everything will fit. 

• Book an on-site groomer on the day of the wedding

As much as possible, you want your groomsmen to be worry-free as the wedding day approaches. If so, you may consider booking an on-site groomer or barber who can attend to their grooming needs just right before the beautiful chaos gets started. That way, your buddies no longer need to think of getting a haircut or shaving their stubbles. (3) (4)

Plus, it would be a fun thing to experience together with your best guys. You can avail of spa packages and other grooming treatments that men don't usually try on a regular day. Don't forget to enjoy a few shots of your favorite brandy while waiting for everyone to be ready.

Such times are also perfect for a photo op that your photo and video team is surely looking forward to. Basically, the goal is to get ready with your gang while candidly sharing precious moments that are truly one for the books. (5)

• Send them a gentle reminder

With everybody busy and thrilled as the big day approaches, you can’t blame your groomsmen if forgetfulness gets the best of them. Boys will be boys, as they say, and it’s up to you to ensure everything will go as planned on the day you say ‘I do.’ You can help your groomsmen remember what they need to bring and do by simply sending them a gentle reminder via text, call, or any online messaging platform you use.

A good idea is to send a groomsman’s checklist along with the grooming kit you’ll give them days before the wedding. That way, they can simply tick off the boxes to check if they’ve packed everything they need. Some items you can include in the list are their ties, socks, cuff links, suspenders (if they agreed to wear one,) belts, and dress shoes. If there’ll be an after-party, they may also want to bring some change of clothes, comfy shoes or slippers, and an extra jacket or sweater in case the weather gets chilly all of a sudden. (6)

Takeaways

It’s not every day that you and your wolf pack get to share an event as momentous as your wedding day. As such, it’s only fitting that you try your best to pamper them and make them feel more special than the rest of your guests. These grooming tips above are definitely worth a try if you aim to prepare your gang for an affair like no other.

References

1. “What Do Groomsmen Do the Morning of the Wedding?”, Source: https://www.brides.com/story/what-groomsmen-should-do-the-morning-of-the-wedding
2. “The Ultimate Groomsman Packing Checklist”, https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/the-ultimate-groomsman-packing-checklist
3. “6 Wedding Day Ideas for the Groom and His Guys”, Source: https://www.southernliving.com/weddings/groom-morning-of-wedding-activities
4. “5 Essential Wedding Hair Tips for the Groom-To-Be", Source: https://www.byrdie.com/five-rules-for-wedding-day-grooming-2326604
5. “20 Great Grooming Tips for Grooms”, Source: https://bridalmusings.com/71949/20-great-grooming-tips-for-grooms/
6. “5 Original Accessories to Complement the Groomsmen Suit”, Source: https://medium.com/@sarahpaulsonUSA/5-original-accessories-to-complement-the-groomsmen-suit-b79ee509210d